I don't know which is better.

To deal with a man who's too egoistical, or to deal with one who's very emotional.

At least with the egoistical one, you can easily brush him off , but the one's who's emotional gets you worried.

How does one reply to a man who tells you that he's feeling very upset in a situation I myself find quite trivial?

I still don't know how to deal with men. Lord guide me!